We have such warm and happy memories of Spike, and a few words cannot do justice to the wonderful man he was. Two threads stand out for us though: Christmas and music.
For many years Mel and Spike’s Christmas Eve gatherings were a highlight for our family. The point where all the pre-Christmas stress and fretting was done and we could relax in the company of the loveliest of people. Then there would be Spike and friends, leading us in song through Christmas in Washington, and Fairytale of New York. If the rest of the holiday season had ever been cancelled, the gathering would have been enough.
We spoke often of music, and I know Rory always enjoyed conversations with him too. Back when Rory was 15 and a budding guitarist, Spike asked if we could perform at Mel’s birthday party, Melfest. At the time, Rory had hardly ever performed. I was a much less talented guitarist and had never played in public. We were both petrified, but Spike’s affirmation and encouragement got us onto the stage and we made it through. He applauded us at the end with the words ‘That’s how we roll in Forest Gate!’
We will miss him, and remember him with love.
Mike Angela Rory and Nicole
23rd September 2024
